It’s True – You Really Can Make Him Miss You

Make Him Miss YouMany women are wondering if a guy really thinks about them when they are not around. And as men are not too open about their emotions, it is hard to find out the truth.

There are some great ways to make him miss you and think about you. Unfortunately, many women get it wrong and think that the best way is to over communicate with him. If you really want to know make him miss you, you should take a different approach.

What is Your Relationship With Him?

The truth is that how much you can make him miss you will depend on your relationship.

When you are in a relationship, you should express your devotion and admiration when you are together to be able to make him miss you and the things you are doing when you are around.

You need to make yourself a part of his life before you can get him to notice what is missing. This can be a simple thing like making him coffee when he gets up or reminding him of his favorite football match. No matter what it is, a man is a practical creature and they like living a comfortable life, and that is the best approach to make him miss you.

You should also make him feel that you are irreplaceable. Anybody can cook his favorite meal, but hopefully not the way you do. Anybody can make him feel appreciated, but not the same way you do.

The truth is that men very often feel lonely and lost without a woman. But if you just separated, you have to make sure that you make him miss you and not just any woman.

You must not seem desperate. You need to keep your dignity when you are trying to make him miss you. A guy can easily get full of himself if you are doing everything he wants you to. But you will certainly need to find out about his preferences: food, drink, sports, TV programs. No matter what you think, you can really make him miss you by getting him to remember when you watched a movie together or went to a concert of his favorite band.

A Little Jealousy Can Help Make Him Miss You

You can also make him a little jealous, by buying some new clothes, having a new hairstyle, just before or after he leaves. But don’t overdo it. If your relationship is still thriving, you should avoid flirting with other men. Many men will take it as an authorization to cheat on you. That’s right, he might just think you are doing the same.

Let him know about your feelings and that he is the only one in your life. Still, you shouldn’t look heartbroken if you need to separate temporarily; that is not the way to make him miss you. He needs to know that you will move on with him.

You might also leave a special reminder with him to make him miss you and think about you after you are gone. You can spray some of your perfume on his clothes or on an item or two around his house.

If you would really want him to feel your appreciation, you could leave some notes in his bag, pockets, on his bed, to remind him of the moments you spent together. But you need to be careful not to overdo this; one or two reminders are enough to make him miss you, or eventually he will get annoyed.

Make some plans for when you get back together with him. This might be a movie, a romantic dinner, a night in or even cooking his favorite dish. Choose something you know he likes doing a lot, and make him miss you by telling him how much you are looking forward to it.


  1. Kriz says:

    Thanks for this. I’ve been thinking I was going about it the wrong way.

  2. Lisa says:


    Hang in there, it will get better.

    I think you should take a look at the article on not calling him, just in case you were thinking about that. And, check with your friends to get their thoughts on him. Not to bash him but to give you their honest feedback on the quality of your relationship.

    Good luck!

    - Lisa

  3. Nancy says:

    Wonderful web-site. Terrific info with fantastic insights.

  4. Renaldo says:

    It’s easy… guys like to FLIRT. Everything else is just not as important.

  5. Dot says:

    Thanks, Lisa. I loved this article. Keep up the awesome work!

  6. Lisa says:

    Oh, Renaldo… if it was just that easy. Flirting is part of getting his attention but when trying to rebuild a relationship that was lost, it can backfire. There is more to it than just a wink and a smile. May I suggest you check out the other articles here to learn a bit more?
    – Lisa

  7. Claire says:

    You’ve got great insights about relationship, keep up the good work!

  8. Beth says:

    You’ve got great insights about relationships, keep up the good work!

    Beth :-)

  9. Karen says:

    You’ve got great insights about relationship advice, keep up the good work!

  10. Cindy B says:

    Your blog has inspired me to really completely re-think the way I communicate with my ex. Just saying thanks.
    -Cindy :-)

  11. Vallie says:

    This actually answered my question, thanks!


  1. Jean says:

    Finally some sound advice on this. Frankly, I feel like I’ve been put through the ringer over the past week. Ugh. I know, I know… stay positive. Its hard!