You might have just separated from your boyfriend or maybe you are separated from your husband, and now you want to turn back time. Here are some practical tips on how to make him miss you.
Do you know what you really want?
You have to be careful to make sure you really want him back because, if you follow this advice, in no time at all, he is going to call you and he’s going to want to get back together.
Try these proven methods and watch what happens.
Where are you starting from?
The methods to use vary depending on how close you were together. If you were together for years, it will be much easier to get him back. If, on the other hand, you were together only for a few months, you will have to try a bit harder to make him miss you. But the basic concept is to make him remember the good times you spent together and forget about the not so good things you were through. So you should emphasize the good things and make the bad ones seem insignificant.
As guys are practical creatures, you should make sure that there is something he can’t do without you or can’t enjoy quite the same way without you around. It can be how you prepared his favorite food, a special way of making his bed (or that it got made at all), or just reminding him of something fun you used to do together (maybe even something intimate).
If you left some stuff at his house, you could ask for it back. And, if you know he liked one of your perfumes, you should wear something of his with that scent before handing it back to him. These little things will keep the memory of the good times with you alive.
Let’s Be Friends
You can also offer to be friends… I know what you are thinking but let me explain.
Friends share things with each other. Tell him about the things you are up to, how you are living your life. The whole concept is to find a way of how to make him miss you by showing that you are not bothered by the breakup and are getting along well. If he compares your behavior with his feelings, he will realize that he misses you. You will be able to show him a new side of you as you build your friendship without the pressure of dating. And, to really make him miss you, you always show up in cute outfits, with your makeup done and wearing just a little of that perfume he likes so much.
Change is Good Right Now
A makeover is a great to make him miss you because if you look stunning, he will start checking out who you are going out with, and wishing it was him again. Men like women who think they are beautiful; this is a sure way to make him miss you.
You might also want to change some of your ways right now. It is true, if you are changing for the better, wear those changes with pride. But make sure those changes are positive ones; you should not become a party animal or shopping maniac after the breakup – that would surely push him away.
Think about how you reacted during the last couple weeks and, if you didn’t react in the best fashion, what you could have done differently. Create the persona that you changed those behaviours by really changing.
The number one secret of how to make him miss you is that you should make him realize what he lost. If what he lost was special, he will be back in no time.
So, it’s time to make him remember how special you really are.